If you’ve followed me for a while, you know that I am a total cat person! I wish more people brought their cats to an engagement session. That would be a super interesting blog post to write! But let’s face it. Dogs are just more apt for field trips, whether to go get a pupaccino through the Starbucks drive-thru or to accompany you for a walk to the post office. Which means they are natural third-wheels, so engagement sessions with a dog are not that crazy of an idea.
But I’m also first to admit, I am not a natural when it comes to dogs. I know and love on my own dog easily. But that’s because I’m used to his personality after raising him with my family since he was a puppy. When it comes to other people’s dogs, I am a little… awkward. Every dog seems to have a unique personality and energy level, which is so fun for dog owners! But as a photographer (and a cat lady photographer at that), I learned very quickly that serving clients well who want to include a zany pup in their session meant I needed to learn how to work with dogs in a way that provides ease of mind, fun for the whole party, and clarity of direction.
So here are my top 3 tips on how to have a successful engagement session with your pup:
1. Feed and walk your dog before the engagement session.
Most of my engagement sessions are on a time restraint, because I love aiming for sunset-friendly start times. Having a dog with you will mean we have another agenda to follow on top of our own. Most dogs don’t understand that going number 2 during a pose is an awkward transition to say the least.
Also, lots of dogs can get antsy during feeding times. I know my dog Eli gets very restless when he is hungry. Every move we make is a tease to him that we’re getting up to give him food. Feeding the dog beforehand will mean he/she is full and ready for a new activity.
To ensure your dog is ready for the camera and able to perform in a timely manner, it’s best to get all “business” and feeding done beforehand.
2. Treats and toys rarely fail!
I have a dog, but he is our family dog we’ve had since I was little. So he lives with my parents. Therefore, I do not have dog toys or treats on hand. But you know what your dog loves most! Be sure to bring his/her favorite squeaky toy and a baggie of treats so I can use them to get them to look towards me and smile for the camera. Then we can reward your pup when I get a stellar model-faced shot.
3. Bring a handler.
You don’t have to hire a professional dog handler. But this may be a great time to phone a friend. I never recommend bringing anyone else along for your engagement session unless you have a dog! Most of the time I prefer my couples to view their session like a special date they’re on together. So human third wheels can make things more awkward and add the pressure of an audience. But with a dog, you will be relieved to hand over the leash when it’s time to capture some romantic portraits!
There are a lot more ways I can tailor engagement sessions with a dog to create a fun, stress-free appointment. But these top three tricks are sure to get us off to an amazing start for most dogs!
If you are considering letting your favorite pooch in on the fun, be sure to let me know so we can talk about your dog’s specific personality and needs!
When Taylor reached out about having me photograph her Hilton Head Island wedding, I could hardly believe it. Since marrying my husband, I’ve enjoyed annual trips to Hilton Head with my in-laws, who have been visiting for years. I’m not much of a beach person (love my lake life!) but the beauty of the low country made this a top bucket list place for photographing a future wedding. Kolby & Taylor made that a dream come true, as they lived their own dream day! On September 14 at the Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort, Kolby & Taylor tied the knot – and I got to be a Hilton Head Island wedding photographer.
A Hilton Head Island Engagement
Kolby and Taylor met while they were in their respective professional programs. Kolby was attending Duke University for Physical Therapy. Taylor was attending law school at UNC Chapel Hill. They connected pre-Covid, stayed in contact all throughout, and finally met in person when they each returned to campus in August of 2020.
As a couple, they made a habit of exercising together every morning, taking walks and runs to talk about life and their goals. They also love visiting Hilton Head Island, where Taylor’s family lives. The beach is their happy place, where they both enjoy the sunshine and relaxation time. Kolby will listen to a podcast, and Taylor will read her books. They also like to play Spikeball, chat about life, and enjoy the water.
Fast forward a couple years. Kolby and Taylor would travel to spend a lot of time in Hilton Head, where Taylor’s family lives. After what Taylor thought was just a normal weekend visit, they went out to dinner, and her whole family decided to take a walk through a nice park on the water. While posing for pictures, Kolby got down on one knee! That park has now become a special place on the island for the two of them.
Their Hilton Head Island Wedding Day
Their wedding day was a source of some slight anxiety that week. Kevin and I decided to take a week to visit Hilton Head. We celebrated our second anniversary on the island. But the entire week, the weather was not kind to us. It was rainy, chilly, humid, and very few hours of actual sun the entire week. The forecast threatened much of the same miserable wedding for Kolby and Taylor’s big day.
To be clear: RAIN ON A WEDDING DAY IS OK. It’s unavoidable, and you can still get GORGEOUS images on a rainy day. I have plenty of proof of that from Zach & Camille’s wedding, Mary & Joey’s wedding, Kevin & Emma’s wedding, and so many more! My own wedding day still stands as the rainiest wedding I have ever attended, and I LOVE my wedding photos.
But I knew rain would add certain challenges based on their chosen Hilton Head Island wedding venues. Their ceremony was set for the beach at the Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort. I selfishly wished, for the sake of my photos (and for Kolby & Taylor’s experience), that the sun would peek out even if just for the ceremony.
The Lord heard our prayers, because the entire day was fantastic weather!! Our only challenge was the intense wind on the beach, but even that couldn’t affect how beautiful the ceremony was. I shot quickly and took many photos of each shot to ensure we had at least one good option despite windswept hair and dresses.
Between the glorious, glowy sunlight and the wind, their portraits on the beach turned out to be so epic! Taylor’s dress flew dramatically in many of the shots. And her hair and makeup artist deserves a round of applause. Her updo survived and looked gorgeous even as the wind took the wispy pieces left out.
Highlights of the Day
There was so much to love about this wedding. On a personal note, it was my first wedding back in the saddle after giving birth to my daughter! (Birth story soon to come!) Despite worries of feeling a little rusty with postpartum brain fog, I’m feeling bold enough to say this was my favorite/best work yet! Here are some highlights you’ll want to seek out as you scroll:
A Dreamy Tower
Shoutout to Taylor’s friend and bridesmaid Jordan for showing me the tower room at Gull Island Manor, a short-term rental house in Sea Pines! I never would’ve known to wander up there, but it ended up being the dreamiest spot for details and Taylor’s getting ready photos! That light – *chef’s kiss*!
Lean Supplies And A Broken Ring Dish
For the couple’s wedding day details, I really didn’t bring a ton with me from my usually packed styling kit. We had to travel light to fit the essentials. What’s more, my favorite ring dish snapped in half when I dropped it going up the stone steps to the manor!
It was time to get creative. I actually ended up loving the look of my broken ring dish and decided to use it! I also found some dead palm foliage on the outer landscaping to feature in the flat lay of details. Paired with a wisp of Spanish moss, what once was a lean styling kit soon became true-to-location details that made the photos sing “Hilton Head Island wedding.” This just goes to show: Less is more. The less I have to work with in preparation for styling details has sometimes led to my most creative work!
A Touching Island Wedding Ceremony at the Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort
Despite the crazy wind, we were all so grateful for beautiful sunlight during Kolby & Taylor’s wedding ceremony at the Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort. Kolby & Taylor opted out of having a First Look, so I was dead set on getting Kolby’s reaction to seeing his beautiful bride. What I captured was one of the sweetest Groom reactions – instant happy tears as she came down from the dunes.
Another standout moment from their ceremony happened toward the end. Kolby’s dad officiated the ceremony. After a beautiful exchanging of the rings, and just before inviting the first kiss, he began choking up as he pronounced them husband and wife. It was so profound coming from a father (and now father-in-law). You could hear the soft “aww” reactions from the guests. That was such an emotional, happy moment!
Experience > Tradition
Kolby & Taylor planned a truly personal and intimate wedding reception at Gull Island Manor. It more so mimicked a dinner party than wedding reception. They hosted a warm cocktail hour with an open bar featuring their signature cocktails. Guests could explore the grounds while enjoying appetizers and getting their photo taken by the live painter commissioned to watercolor their portrait for a unique take-home gift.
When dinner was ready to start, guests descended to the lower tier of the garden overlooking the marsh. There, a long singular table was set with cheesecloth, candle sticks, place settings, and customized name plates made out of oyster shells.
The couple came down last, but there was no planned fanfare. They decided to forego the traditional dances and simply welcome guests to a laid back dinner serenaded by live musicians. This allowed the couple plenty of time to mingle with each guest and create special memories with the entire party, including a surprise visit from Keebler their dog. I absolutely loved this approach to a wedding celebration – and I could tell everyone else did too!
Final Thoughts From Kolby & Taylor’s Hilton Head Island Wedding
I’m so honored to have served as Kolby & Taylor’s wedding photographer. The entire experience was a dream for me – one that I hope opens the opportunity for even more chances to expand as an HHI wedding photographer. Their warmth and friendship was extended to me from the start, and their guests and family were a true delight to spend the day with.
I’ve begun asking couples to share what they love most about one another, and what excites them for marriage. Here’s how they answered.
What Taylor Loves Most About Kolby
“I love how devoted Kolby is to our little family. He is the most selfless person I know and would do anything to make things easier on others. He supports me emotionally and has the utmost patience when it comes to helping me navigate stressful situations, and he would do literally anything for our dog Keebler. Keebler gets to go to the dog park, walks, gets bones, pup cups, everything! He’s so spoiled because Kolby likes to take such good care of him.”
What Kolby Loves Most About Taylor
“I love how much Taylor guides and anchors me in our life. I am a very good-with-the-flow person which helps me stay optimistic and positive. However, I struggle sometimes with direction and focus because of this. Taylor has given me so much purpose in life and given me the direction for how I want my life to go. She is so ambitious and helps me make goals for ourselves that I would’ve never thought possible. Even in the few years I’ve known her, she’s helped me achieve goals and see a future I would’ve never thought possible for myself and for us.”
The Most Beautiful Thing About Marriage: According to Kolby & Taylor
“The most beautiful thing about marriage in my eyes is the commitment to stand by your partner no matter what life brings. My parents have had a long marriage and I admire the way that they’ve stuck by each other through every challenge. It’s easy to walk away from something when things become difficult but marriage is the commitment to another person to instead engage with them and work through the issues instead of walking away. In my eyes, marriage is beautiful because its permanent.”
K&T, I wish you both so much happiness in your marriage. Enjoy your honeymoon in Europe!!
If you love my work and you’re considering getting married in Hilton Head Island, or another destination in the southern East Coast, I would love to chat! I am based in the DC area but travel often for weddings. Contact me for more information!
Vendor Shoutouts
I was honored to work alongside a vendor dream team, consisting of the following talent:
