For those that know even a little about me, you know that I am not a full-time photographer. My business is in its baby phase (perhaps maybe even in utero by more accurate metaphorical standards). I am dreaming, planning, and learning as much as I can to achieve my goals, but my parents also raised me to be a hard worker and responsible.
That means I have a full-time job – a regular 9-to-5 that keeps the rent money coming and puts food in Ryan’s cat bowl. And I do enjoy that job! I work with great people and under a respectable boss. I keep pretty busy during the regular week day.
But with full-time work, having a side hustle has become a struggle. There’s a lot that goes into starting a business, and working a 9-to-5 only complicates and lengthens the process.
I’ve learned a lot so far about working 60-70 hour weeks, and I’m still learning. I know it’s not something even all of my supporters fully understand, so that is why I’m starting this series.
I want to share with you all the whole journey! This blog series will cover the following:
Why I’m [Side] Hustling (Dreams)
What I’m [Side] Hustling Towards (Goals)
How I’m [Side] Hustling (Time Management / Avoiding Burnout)
Hustling in the Off-Season (Steps and Strategies to Book and Grow)
Basically, you’re going to hear it ALL – full transparency! I’m going to share my dreams and my doubts, my goals and my hurdles, my wins and my losses, my strategies and my lessons.
My hope is that these blog posts will do one of two things for my readers:
Reassure my concerned supporters that I have both a purpose and a plan for my business
Encourage entrepreneurs and dreamers just like me that it can (and should) be done!
What makes this series unique is that you’re not hearing it from someone who has reached the other side. You’re hearing it from someone who is neck-deep in it!
I follow a couple photographers that serve as inspiration and mentors for me. And many of them started the same way I am! But what always left me with more questions was that I haven’t heard any of them really break down the steps they took in the VERY beginning of their dreams and careers. Usually their stories look something like this:
I was a full time [insert job here], and had to grow my business on the side working [so and so amount of hours] and spending [this many] weekends shooting weddings and engagements. Now I shoot 35 weddings every year and bring in a 6-figure income!
That’s great and all. But did I miss something? HOW did you find those clients? How did you get that first bride to trust you to photograph the biggest day of her life having no portfolio or experience to show her? They make it seem too easy.
Not to knock my wiser, more seasoned photographer friends, but this is only an inspirational story. It’s not really a practical resource. It answers the question of “Can it be done?” rather than “How can it be done?”
I can’t wait to start sharing this journey with you all in this level of depth. As always, keep checking back on the blog every Tuesday and Thursday for updates!
Every couple has a unique story, and the best engagement photo ideas go far beyond posed smiles. Recently, I photographed “A” & “L’s” engagement session—an ENP couple who requested that I protect their privacy and not share identifiable images online. Their request wasn’t just respected; it opened the door for a deeply intentional session filled with quiet, meaningful moments that beautifully reflected their relationship.
As a photographer specializing in storytelling and editorial imagery, I want couples to know that your engagement session can and should feel personal. You don’t need to perform for the camera—you just need a photographer who knows how to turn your real-life love into visual poetry.
Why Engagement Photo Ideas Should Be Personal
Many couples think engagement photos are just about dressing up and smiling at the camera. While I definitely capture classic portraits, that’s only a fraction of the full story. The best engagement photo ideas come from understanding who you are as a couple—your rituals, your connection, your humor, and your journey.
For “A” & “L,” that meant starting their session in a quiet park, sitting side-by-side on a bench where they’ve spent countless hours reading their Bibles and journaling together. These aren’t just habits—they’re emotional anchors in their relationship. Photographing those rituals added a depth to their gallery that no traditional pose ever could.
And then there was the ring: “A” wears a gold band on his right hand as a symbol of engagement in his culture. On their wedding day, that ring will move to his left. It’s a tradition full of meaning—and one I made sure to feature with a detailed, editorial-style shot that tells that part of their story.
Editorial Engagement Photo Ideas for Storytelling
When we think of great engagement photo ideas, editorial photography might not be the first thing that comes to mind—but it should be. Editorial doesn’t mean impersonal or overly styled. It means refined, intentional, and expressive.
I guide my couples with subtle posing, always encouraging movement, touch, and interaction. In “A” & “L’s” gallery, I included:
Classic portraits (yes, the ones grandma wants for her mantel)
Thoughtful candids full of laughter and genuine connection
Detail shots of meaningful objects like their Bibles and both “L” and “A’s” engagement rings
Wide, environmental shots that add context and a sense of place
Quiet in-between moments that feel like stills from a film
These engagement photo ideas create a well-rounded gallery that feels less like a checklist and more like a visual love letter.
Tips to Plan Meaningful Engagement Photo Ideas
Want to make sure your session is just as unique and story-driven? Here are some ways you can help me create something truly special:
1. Share Your Love Story With Me
Before the session, I’ll send you a short questionnaire. This helps me understand your personalities, how you fell in love, what you value, and how you spend time together. The more I know, the more authentic your photos will be.
2. Bring Meaningful Props
If there’s a book you both love, a blanket from your first date, or items that symbolize your relationship (like “A’s” gold band), bring them! These kinds of details give your engagement photo ideas texture and significance.
3. Pick a Location That Matters to You
Sure, sunset fields and rooftops are gorgeous—but so is the cozy corner of your favorite café or the trail where you go on weekend walks. Let’s choose a spot that feels like you.
4. Let the Moments Unfold Naturally
My sessions are never rushed or overly choreographed. I’ll offer guidance, but the best photos happen when you’re genuinely present with each other. Laugh, talk, cuddle—just be yourselves.
How Your Love Story Inspires Timeless Engagement Photo Ideas
At the end of the day, engagement photo ideas should celebrate what’s true and beautiful about your relationship—not a one-size-fits-all concept. With “A” & “L,” we created something soft, editorial, and sacred without ever showing a full face. Their images still speak volumes, because they are layered with authenticity, intention, and emotional storytelling.
If you’re looking for an engagement session that feels deeply “you”—with all the variety, intimacy, and editorial beauty you’ve been dreaming of—I would be honored to create that with you.