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Style Guide for Men: What to Wear to Your Engagement Session

Last week I shared some links to dresses/outfits and some tips for ladies on what to wear to an engagement session. This week, I’m talking to the guys! That’s right, men… the focus is on you for once! 🙂 If you’ve ever wondered, as a guy, what to wear to an engagement session, look no further!

I’m going to clear the air and let you know that yes, I am trying to do your girl a favor here. 😉 But I’m also here to do you a favor! If you follow these styling tips, you won’t have to worry about holding up 6 different ties until your woman picks one, or risk showing up in something that makes her give you the “we’ll talk about this later” look. (Ladies, admit it… you know the one.) I’m here to make sure you show up to your session in something that will lead to some major brownie points with your lady. So let’s dive in:

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For guys, I find it’s best to provide a style guide in the form of do’s and don’ts. Keep it simple, right? So, men…

DON’T…

  • …show up in that pair of sneakers you wear everywhere. You know, the tired ones that are super comfy and “match” everything you own? Let’s leave them behind just for today.
  • …wear an old T-shirt. For the casual outfit, I don’t mind a solid-colored cotton V-neck, but make sure there are no graphics from your old wrestling team on it. If you’re going the T-shirt route, stick to basics: white, blue, or red, V-neck or crew-neck, and properly fitted (avoid baggy ANYTHING!) Actually, let’s discuss that next…
  • …wear baggy clothes. Shirts should hang only just below the belt, if not tucked in. Sleeves shouldn’t fit two of your biceps in them; and if you wear long sleeves, they should stop at or right after your wrist-bone. Jeans/pants need to be the right length too.
  • …forget to iron. My camera will find those wrinkles, so pay a little extra attention to your outfit in this area.

DO…

  • …dress up for your girl. You might be the kind of guy that owns 3 T-shirts and wears the same dusty pair of jeans every day. But this is a special occasion for you and your sweetheart. Ladies love when their man dresses up for them, and this session provides the perfect opportunity to show her how proud you are to have her on your [well-dressed] arm. Don’t turn your nose up immediately to wearing the outfits I’m about to suggest. Keep an open mind; and remember that if this isn’t typically your thing, you’re doing it for her.
  • …wear a belt. The quickest way to dress up any outfit is by throwing on a nice leather belt! Avoid worn out belts or anything with a large buckle. And tuck in that shirt 😉 Though, casual outfits I’m a little more lenient on.
  • …wear a collared shirt. Even for your casual outfit, this is a good move. Opt for a polo or short-sleeved button down for spring/summer casual; a collared flannel or nice sweater for fall/winter casual. For your formal outfit, COLLARS. ARE. A. MUST. Dress shirts are your safest bet!
  • …shower. Ok, stop laughing. I mean it. I can’t tell you how many engagement photos I see and I can just tell the guy did not do a whole lot of “maintenance” work beforehand. Shower, shave, get that haircut she’s been reminding you about — heck, even put on some cologne! You’re going to be posing with your girl, so you’ll want to smell good for her (treat the session like a date). Plus, I’m convinced that when a guy smells good, he poses so much better because his confidence goes way up — guys that smell good know how to look good.
  • …try out some accessories/layering! Maybe throw on a tie. Just make sure it doesn’t have any bold or distracting patterns to it. Simple and sleek is a safe bet (opt for solid colors that compliment your outfit). Wear a watch or a pocket square (optional). If it’s a fall/winter day, why not try wearing another layer? I love the “sweater with a popped collared shirt underneath” look, or throwing a jacket or sports coat over your dress shirt.
  • …ask for her opinion. When in doubt, let her help. 🙂

Ok, now for my visual learners… below are three looks for each outfit (formal and casual) that I love!! Feel free to use these as inspiration. (Disclaimer: Photos are NOT my own… found on Pinterest. For more inspiration, view my formal and casual Pinterest boards to give more inspiration on what to wear to your engagement session!)

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Every couple has a unique story, and the best engagement photo ideas go far beyond posed smiles. Recently, I photographed “A” & “L’s” engagement session—an ENP couple who requested that I protect their privacy and not share identifiable images online. Their request wasn’t just respected; it opened the door for a deeply intentional session filled with quiet, meaningful moments that beautifully reflected their relationship.

As a photographer specializing in storytelling and editorial imagery, I want couples to know that your engagement session can and should feel personal. You don’t need to perform for the camera—you just need a photographer who knows how to turn your real-life love into visual poetry.

Why Engagement Photo Ideas Should Be Personal

Many couples think engagement photos are just about dressing up and smiling at the camera. While I definitely capture classic portraits, that’s only a fraction of the full story. The best engagement photo ideas come from understanding who you are as a couple—your rituals, your connection, your humor, and your journey.

For “A” & “L,” that meant starting their session in a quiet park, sitting side-by-side on a bench where they’ve spent countless hours reading their Bibles and journaling together. These aren’t just habits—they’re emotional anchors in their relationship. Photographing those rituals added a depth to their gallery that no traditional pose ever could.

And then there was the ring: “A” wears a gold band on his right hand as a symbol of engagement in his culture. On their wedding day, that ring will move to his left. It’s a tradition full of meaning—and one I made sure to feature with a detailed, editorial-style shot that tells that part of their story.

Editorial Engagement Photo Ideas for Storytelling

When we think of great engagement photo ideas, editorial photography might not be the first thing that comes to mind—but it should be. Editorial doesn’t mean impersonal or overly styled. It means refined, intentional, and expressive.

I guide my couples with subtle posing, always encouraging movement, touch, and interaction. In “A” & “L’s” gallery, I included:

  • Classic portraits (yes, the ones grandma wants for her mantel)
  • Thoughtful candids full of laughter and genuine connection
  • Detail shots of meaningful objects like their Bibles and both “L” and “A’s” engagement rings
  • Wide, environmental shots that add context and a sense of place
  • Quiet in-between moments that feel like stills from a film

These engagement photo ideas create a well-rounded gallery that feels less like a checklist and more like a visual love letter.

Tips to Plan Meaningful Engagement Photo Ideas

Want to make sure your session is just as unique and story-driven? Here are some ways you can help me create something truly special:

1. Share Your Love Story With Me

Before the session, I’ll send you a short questionnaire. This helps me understand your personalities, how you fell in love, what you value, and how you spend time together. The more I know, the more authentic your photos will be.

2. Bring Meaningful Props

If there’s a book you both love, a blanket from your first date, or items that symbolize your relationship (like “A’s” gold band), bring them! These kinds of details give your engagement photo ideas texture and significance.

3. Pick a Location That Matters to You

Sure, sunset fields and rooftops are gorgeous—but so is the cozy corner of your favorite café or the trail where you go on weekend walks. Let’s choose a spot that feels like you.

4. Let the Moments Unfold Naturally

My sessions are never rushed or overly choreographed. I’ll offer guidance, but the best photos happen when you’re genuinely present with each other. Laugh, talk, cuddle—just be yourselves.

How Your Love Story Inspires Timeless Engagement Photo Ideas

At the end of the day, engagement photo ideas should celebrate what’s true and beautiful about your relationship—not a one-size-fits-all concept. With “A” & “L,” we created something soft, editorial, and sacred without ever showing a full face. Their images still speak volumes, because they are layered with authenticity, intention, and emotional storytelling.

If you’re looking for an engagement session that feels deeply “you”—with all the variety, intimacy, and editorial beauty you’ve been dreaming of—I would be honored to create that with you.

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