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Make or Break: How Your Outfit Choices Can Either Challenge or Champion Your Shoot

Cue the “What Not to Wear” theme song! I am dedicating a whole blog post to all the outfit-related tips I usually share with my clients, so that you can be fully prepared to ROCK your next photo session, and receive photos that you LOVE.
I have already had a handful of successful sessions so early in my career as a photographer, and there is one thing I always thought people would ask me immediately when booking a session, “What do you recommend I wear?” Well, surprise! I have not ONCE had a client ask me this question!
Now maybe it’s just me, and feel free to let me know if that’s the case, but when I know I’m about to have photos taken, I stand in my closet for an unhealthy amount of time filing through all my outfits, holding hangers of clothes in front of me in the mirror, trying on, taking off, and trying on again different outfits, all to find just the right one. If I’m really out of ideas, I phone a girl friend, or FaceTime her for help.

Luckily, my clients so far have chosen some GREAT outfits in their sessions. One particular client I want to highlight is the Engelbrecht family (pictured above). They hit just about every outfit “do” that I am going to mention. I want you to remember this image for now, because I am about to give you some of my top tips for choosing a great outfit that keeps photography in mind, so that you receive a gallery of images that you love and want to share over and over again!
 
The Don’ts:
1. Avoid super bright, bold colors. Bold colors tend to come out oversaturated, and it is more difficult to correct this in editing without losing the natural tones in the rest of the image. If you plan to wear a statement color, I recommend that it’s worn by the member that will want to pop the most (usually the bride for engagements, or a baby for family sessions).
 
2. Avoid red, orange, and green. Avoid black. These first few colors tend to cast an unnatural color onto your skin and face. And too much black in an outfit will make photos feel dark, heavy, and lose detail. Use discretion with this one.
 
3. Avoid intricate/detailed patterns. Not all patterns are a no-no, so if you’re unsure, take a dime out. If the pattern lines or dots are smaller than the dime, opt for a bolder print. (Alyssa and little Xander did a GREAT job at this in their outfits)
 
4. MEN: No open-toed shoes! (and yes, I do like to get full-body shots, so shoes do make a difference) Closed-toe is a more formal option, and can be a much less distracting choice of footwear, and… let’s face it… I doubt you’re planning to join your girl for a pedi before that shoot. 😉
 
5. Don’t twin. Couples, the goal is to coordinate, not match. Let your individual personalities shine, and add variety and visual interest to your images by choosing well-coordinated outfits! You should each stand out in your own unique way.
 
The Do’s:
1. Wear soft or neutral colors! My favorites are tans, beiges, blues, pinks, greys, whites, soft yellows, soft greens, etc.
 
2. Wear your confidence! I feel like this especially applies to the ladies, but certainly guys can benefit from this rule. It especially speaks to the fit of clothes. My suggested “measuring stick” for an outfit is the amount of time you spend in front of the mirror before leaving your home in it. If you are looking in the mirror, adjusting the angle of your body, pulling on the fabric, constantly adjusting elaborate details like belts or scarves or long necklaces, then it’s probably not the right outfit. The goal is comfortable and confident! The more confident you feel in an outfit, the more confident and bright your smiles will be for my camera. Do you look at yourself once in the mirror and think, “I look good!” without any adjustments? Then you are wearing your confidence! Go with that outfit!
 
3. Embrace movement. I love, love, LOVE long, flowy skirts or dresses! They add so much movement and femininity for you ladies. But if you prefer a more casual shoot, ways to embrace this “do” is opting for long, loose cardigans, a pair of dangly earrings, or wearing your hair down.
 
4. Treat yourself. Girls, get a mani (and pedi if you are wearing peep-toe shoes), get your hair styled, buy some fresh makeup or wash those brushes for a clean application. For engagement sessions, I even recommend going to a makeup artist! If you feel like you look your best, your posing and smiles will show it.
 
5. Consider an outfit backup/change. You will get a lot of variety out of your session if you bring a second outfit along! I especially recommend this for engagement sessions. If you do plan to use this tip, come to your session wearing your fancy outfit, and bring your casual, comfy outfit to change into half-way through the session.
 
These rules are not written in stone by any means. I wouldn’t be a good photographer if I wasn’t prepared for you creative rebels (I really do love your enthusiasm!), or the clients that want to express themselves in other ways. These are just some easy, simple changes you can make in your outfit choice that helps a session run as smooth as possible and lets your natural self shine through! I hope these tips are helpful for those of you prepping for your photo session.
 
P.S. Still struggling? Here are my favorite budget-friendly stores and boutiques to help you find the perfect outfit for your next session!
 
Thanks for reading, and happy closet hunting!
Xx Emily

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When Taylor reached out about having me photograph her Hilton Head Island wedding, I could hardly believe it. Since marrying my husband, I’ve enjoyed annual trips to Hilton Head with my in-laws, who have been visiting for years. I’m not much of a beach person (love my lake life!) but the beauty of the low country made this a top bucket list place for photographing a future wedding. Kolby & Taylor made that a dream come true, as they lived their own dream day! On September 14 at the Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort, Kolby & Taylor tied the knot – and I got to be a Hilton Head Island wedding photographer.

A Hilton Head Island Engagement

Kolby and Taylor met while they were in their respective professional programs. Kolby was attending Duke University for Physical Therapy. Taylor was attending law school at UNC Chapel Hill. They connected pre-Covid, stayed in contact all throughout, and finally met in person when they each returned to campus in August of 2020.

As a couple, they made a habit of exercising together every morning, taking walks and runs to talk about life and their goals. They also love visiting Hilton Head Island, where Taylor’s family lives. The beach is their happy place, where they both enjoy the sunshine and relaxation time. Kolby will listen to a podcast, and Taylor will read her books. They also like to play Spikeball, chat about life, and enjoy the water.

Fast forward a couple years. Kolby and Taylor would travel to spend a lot of time in Hilton Head, where Taylor’s family lives. After what Taylor thought was just a normal weekend visit, they went out to dinner, and her whole family decided to take a walk through a nice park on the water. While posing for pictures, Kolby got down on one knee! That park has now become a special place on the island for the two of them.

Their Hilton Head Island Wedding Day

Their wedding day was a source of some slight anxiety that week. Kevin and I decided to take a week to visit Hilton Head. We celebrated our second anniversary on the island. But the entire week, the weather was not kind to us. It was rainy, chilly, humid, and very few hours of actual sun the entire week. The forecast threatened much of the same miserable wedding for Kolby and Taylor’s big day.

To be clear: RAIN ON A WEDDING DAY IS OK. It’s unavoidable, and you can still get GORGEOUS images on a rainy day. I have plenty of proof of that from Zach & Camille’s wedding, Mary & Joey’s wedding, Kevin & Emma’s wedding, and so many more! My own wedding day still stands as the rainiest wedding I have ever attended, and I LOVE my wedding photos.

But I knew rain would add certain challenges based on their chosen Hilton Head Island wedding venues. Their ceremony was set for the beach at the Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort. I selfishly wished, for the sake of my photos (and for Kolby & Taylor’s experience), that the sun would peek out even if just for the ceremony.

The Lord heard our prayers, because the entire day was fantastic weather!! Our only challenge was the intense wind on the beach, but even that couldn’t affect how beautiful the ceremony was. I shot quickly and took many photos of each shot to ensure we had at least one good option despite windswept hair and dresses.

Between the glorious, glowy sunlight and the wind, their portraits on the beach turned out to be so epic! Taylor’s dress flew dramatically in many of the shots. And her hair and makeup artist deserves a round of applause. Her updo survived and looked gorgeous even as the wind took the wispy pieces left out.

Highlights of the Day

There was so much to love about this wedding. On a personal note, it was my first wedding back in the saddle after giving birth to my daughter! (Birth story soon to come!) Despite worries of feeling a little rusty with postpartum brain fog, I’m feeling bold enough to say this was my favorite/best work yet! Here are some highlights you’ll want to seek out as you scroll:

A Dreamy Tower

Shoutout to Taylor’s friend and bridesmaid Jordan for showing me the tower room at Gull Island Manor, a short-term rental house in Sea Pines! I never would’ve known to wander up there, but it ended up being the dreamiest spot for details and Taylor’s getting ready photos! That light – *chef’s kiss*!

Lean Supplies And A Broken Ring Dish

For the couple’s wedding day details, I really didn’t bring a ton with me from my usually packed styling kit. We had to travel light to fit the essentials. What’s more, my favorite ring dish snapped in half when I dropped it going up the stone steps to the manor!

It was time to get creative. I actually ended up loving the look of my broken ring dish and decided to use it! I also found some dead palm foliage on the outer landscaping to feature in the flat lay of details. Paired with a wisp of Spanish moss, what once was a lean styling kit soon became true-to-location details that made the photos sing “Hilton Head Island wedding.” This just goes to show: Less is more. The less I have to work with in preparation for styling details has sometimes led to my most creative work!

A Touching Island Wedding Ceremony at the Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort

Despite the crazy wind, we were all so grateful for beautiful sunlight during Kolby & Taylor’s wedding ceremony at the Omni Hilton Head Oceanfront Resort. Kolby & Taylor opted out of having a First Look, so I was dead set on getting Kolby’s reaction to seeing his beautiful bride. What I captured was one of the sweetest Groom reactions – instant happy tears as she came down from the dunes.

Another standout moment from their ceremony happened toward the end. Kolby’s dad officiated the ceremony. After a beautiful exchanging of the rings, and just before inviting the first kiss, he began choking up as he pronounced them husband and wife. It was so profound coming from a father (and now father-in-law). You could hear the soft “aww” reactions from the guests. That was such an emotional, happy moment!

Experience > Tradition

Kolby & Taylor planned a truly personal and intimate wedding reception at Gull Island Manor. It more so mimicked a dinner party than wedding reception. They hosted a warm cocktail hour with an open bar featuring their signature cocktails. Guests could explore the grounds while enjoying appetizers and getting their photo taken by the live painter commissioned to watercolor their portrait for a unique take-home gift.

When dinner was ready to start, guests descended to the lower tier of the garden overlooking the marsh. There, a long singular table was set with cheesecloth, candle sticks, place settings, and customized name plates made out of oyster shells.

The couple came down last, but there was no planned fanfare. They decided to forego the traditional dances and simply welcome guests to a laid back dinner serenaded by live musicians. This allowed the couple plenty of time to mingle with each guest and create special memories with the entire party, including a surprise visit from Keebler their dog. I absolutely loved this approach to a wedding celebration – and I could tell everyone else did too!

Final Thoughts From Kolby & Taylor’s Hilton Head Island Wedding

I’m so honored to have served as Kolby & Taylor’s wedding photographer. The entire experience was a dream for me – one that I hope opens the opportunity for even more chances to expand as an HHI wedding photographer. Their warmth and friendship was extended to me from the start, and their guests and family were a true delight to spend the day with.

I’ve begun asking couples to share what they love most about one another, and what excites them for marriage. Here’s how they answered.

What Taylor Loves Most About Kolby

“I love how devoted Kolby is to our little family. He is the most selfless person I know and would do anything to make things easier on others. He supports me emotionally and has the utmost patience when it comes to helping me navigate stressful situations, and he would do literally anything for our dog Keebler. Keebler gets to go to the dog park, walks, gets bones, pup cups, everything! He’s so spoiled because Kolby likes to take such good care of him.”

What Kolby Loves Most About Taylor

“I love how much Taylor guides and anchors me in our life. I am a very good-with-the-flow person which helps me stay optimistic and positive. However, I struggle sometimes with direction and focus because of this. Taylor has given me so much purpose in life and given me the direction for how I want my life to go. She is so ambitious and helps me make goals for ourselves that I would’ve never thought possible. Even in the few years I’ve known her, she’s helped me achieve goals and see a future I would’ve never thought possible for myself and for us.”

The Most Beautiful Thing About Marriage: According to Kolby & Taylor

“The most beautiful thing about marriage in my eyes is the commitment to stand by your partner no matter what life brings. My parents have had a long marriage and I admire the way that they’ve stuck by each other through every challenge. It’s easy to walk away from something when things become difficult but marriage is the commitment to another person to instead engage with them and work through the issues instead of walking away. In my eyes, marriage is beautiful because its permanent.”


K&T, I wish you both so much happiness in your marriage. Enjoy your honeymoon in Europe!!

If you love my work and you’re considering getting married in Hilton Head Island, or another destination in the southern East Coast, I would love to chat! I am based in the DC area but travel often for weddings. Contact me for more information!

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I was honored to work alongside a vendor dream team, consisting of the following talent:

Kolby & Taylor's Intimate Wedding at Gull Island Manor on Hilton Head Island | A wide shot of Gull Island Manor, available for short-term rental via VRBO

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